1. Preparing Yourself for a Tantra Session

    January 17, 2012 by dakini

    Spiritual, mental and physical preparation is a key component of Tantra.

    The experience is greatly enhanced if you enter the session with an open heart, conscious awareness and an available body. Whether consciously or unconsciously, the preparation begins before your scheduled appointment. You should establish a clear intention for the upcoming Tantric session. Remember that the path of Tantra is spiritual as well as sensual. Tantra explores our sexuality and sensuality as a conscious meditation. The act of setting your intention creates an opening for the session to unfold naturally and in harmony with the physical, erotic and cosmic energies contained within you. You will want to prepare your mind, body and spirit for the experience. For a first-time receiver, the act of opening all parts of your body – including the most sacred areas – to exploration and stimulation is a life-altering experience.

    For your Tantric Session, remember the following:

    • This is a date with yourself.
    • Make space and time for yourself.
    • You don’t have to please anyone but yourself.
    • Don’t have any preoccupation, appointments close to the session.
    • After the session, you may want to relax and may be even sleep.
    • Please wear lightly perfumed sprays, colognes, or lotions if you wish.
    • No cell phones, no distractions, have your mind free completely of any worries.
    • Move with your breath, so sensations and excitement can circulate into the whole body.

    NOTE: When you are at the point of experiencing Full Body Orgasm (not ejaculation) – Visualize your desires, what you want to change in your life and what you truly want, such as

    • achieving more harmony
    • enjoying more love and deeper intimacy
    • becoming a multi-orgasmic woman or man
    • Having greater overall energy
    • Tapping into your Sensual/Spiritual Nature

    Then, when you release at that orgasmic moment, your visualizations imprint onto your subconscious and into the universe and it returns back into your reality (Law of Attraction).

    Relax and be open!

    Simply imagine that you are receiving an infinite love from the universe.

    When you are nearing Full Body Orgasm (energetic not ejaculation) always breathe deeply. If anything is blocking your mind, it will go away.

    You are in safe, loving, expert hands, so just keep breathing and any built up pressure or discomfort build up will go away.

    An intensely pleasurable experience, it is beautiful, erotic and sensuous…all at once.

    Close your eyes and feel the inner bliss transporting into an  unimaginable world of ecstasy.

    To really understand tantra, you need to be turning yourself on. Tantra is something you get for your own self-satisfaction to add to your life, like yoga, meditation or working out.  You learn to get in touch with your inner sexuality. You can enjoy exploring some erogenous zones, that you never examined before or maybe were too shy to even think about it.

    When practicing G-spot, Prostate healing or Body Energetic Touch, breathe deeply.  Let your partner know that you are enjoying the sensations running through your body.

    Push your muscles, as in the PC MUSCLE exercises which I teach.

    Let go of the flow,  release your muscles, clear your mind and enjoy the pleasures of your G-spot or Prostate Healing or Body Energetic Touch.

    If you feel discomfort, hold on for a few minutes, after that it is pure ecstasy.

    Practice, practice tantra once a week in your life or as often your lifestyle permits. It will change your life; you will feel light, ecstatic and happy. You will see life anew through fresh, loving eyes.